9 Keys to Charisma: Avoid "charisma crushers" by using proper tone of voice and body language.

What you say and how you say it always tells what you really mean.

As leaders, we must be cautions not only of the words we say, but HOW we say them. Sometimes people in leadership roles feel they can boss other people around. That is not the role of a good leader. A good leader does not want to tell others what to do, but instead, inspires others to do it.