9 Keys to Charisma: Say what you are for, not what you are against.

Don't voice the obvious that is not working, but instead, voice what COULD work.

Once you voice opposition, you become a part of the problem. On the other hand, once you voice how you can help, you become a part of the solution. As leaders, we need to voice what we stand for and what we are trying to accomplish, not who we are not and what is not working. It is often said, "you get what you are looking for." So, if you are looking for what is NOT working, then that is what you are going to find.